Okay, this isn’t an attempt to write a movie review. I don’t
think I’ve ever done one but yes, I’ve had my moments when I did tell my friends about my opinions on
some movies I've watched. Also, this entry
may contain few spoilers.
The movie as a whole is good. In fact, I'd say this is better than previous
attempts of the Star Cinema to present a more adult approach when it comes to
relationships that exists between a man and a woman. However as the movie progresses, one can feel
the director’s hesitance to continuously stay on this angle; somewhere along
the way, it seemed that director had a change
of heart when it comes to the “boldness” of the movie and attempted to put in
some “cute” moments between the two lead actors. Undeniably, there is that so-called
chemistry between Angel and John Lloyd, but then again, the hesitation by the
director can be felt and has at some parts of the movie, made it dragging.
Between Mackie and
Ces’ characters, it was with Mackie’s with whom I have identified more. Ironic
huh?! Mackie whose decency wouldn’t allow him to let go of his one-night stand
with Ces go unexplained and whose capacity to love is just beyond anything one
can imagine (i.e., a former girlfriend wanted to become a Dentist, so Mackie
took up the same course, become a Dentist when in fact, what he wanted was to
be a writer). To people who aren’t ready to receive this kind of love (in the
movie, Ces’ character), this is quite scary. And willingly loving someone
without any boundaries and yet being held at an arm’s length is very painful. I
know this because I was in that situation not too long ago.
As earlier said, I find this movie better than the earlier
films of the same genre from Star Cinema. And as always, the lines that were written and
delivered are the ones that ordinary people can readily relate to.
In summary, the movie imparts the message that in matters of
this thing called LOVE, the pains, hurts and struggles of the past shouldn’t
get in the way of one’s chance in finding that one person who will willingly
love you for what you have been and what you are now.
I really like that scene
between Ces and her mother and the exchanges between them, notably, when
Ces asked her Mom, who is depicted as someone who goes from one man to another,
“Don’t you get of getting hurt by men?” The Mom answered, “It’s not that I don’t
get tired of getting hurt, I just don’t get tired of loving”. And Ces asked “why?”
and the Mom replied: “Because if I get tired and stop loving, then how will
I ever find that person who’s really intended for me?” Makes sense, right?
I left the theatre feeling better than I have for the last 2
months. No, it didn’t make me ready to get into a new relationship, but
somehow, it has answered my question about past hurts affecting the present;
and that it is a personal choice whether to let go of those hurts and start
trusting again. :)
Happy watching, everyone!
